igott 2009-07-17 15:24:54

What is crying going to do about it? Huh? Nothing.
Us humans have so much time to be living, and you're wasting yours by grieving.
Instead of doing that, use it to push forward.

Welcome to the Machine. You're dead in the heart, but not in the mind.

goofyka 2009-07-17 18:24:12

Dude I get it that you're sad but can you please try to cheer up some? I get it that you were close to her and stuff but you can't keep on grieving. If you do keep on you'll get sick. I did and I passed out for a like 24 hours. But if you need someone to talk to then I'm all ears.

twilightofdusk 2009-07-17 20:27:55

I reckon you should all lay off him.
He just lost his little sister for Christ sakes...
Obviously you all have had someone died in your family, but he hasn't lost anyone or dealt with this before...

It must have been hard for ya, Marcus...

igott 2009-07-17 20:35:14

She's dead. You can't bring her back, she lived. BUT, are you going to let it dwell?
If my sister up and died, I'd play my bass harder.

twilightofdusk 2009-07-17 20:44:09

_to igott
What would you know about death... your only 14!
Not to be slack or anything, BUT you haven't even hit puberty yet...
Guys are more emotional at the ages 16 to 18
My mates are soo bloody emotional about his loved ones.
Maybe it's just the guys I hang around with, but you don't seem to give a shit.

goofyka 2009-07-17 21:38:16

Uh, twilightofdusk you shouldn't assume such things. The frist death I remember was the death of one of my cousins that was my best friend and also like an older sister to me. So next time remember what assume does. It makes an ass out of u and me.

igott 2009-07-17 22:06:12

It's called rationalization.

Few years into my life, I lost my Grandparents. Am I still alive? Yes. Why? Because I don't rely on some being, nor do I think that faith can help me. I stay alive.

If your brother or sister dies, then you gotta cover for them. Avenge them by being the best you can be. Pink Floyd did that and they ended up as one of the greatest bands ever.

igott 2009-07-17 22:11:52

_to igott
What would you know about death... your only 14!

/I know enough

Not to be slack or anything, BUT you haven't even hit puberty yet...

/Actually, I'm shaving my face, I have body hair, and my dick works fine.

Guys are more emotional at the ages 16 to 18

/Hah, if that was true, then the BBS wouldn't be so bad.

My mates are soo bloody emotional about his loved ones.

/Obviously.

Maybe it's just the guys I hang around with, but you don't seem to give a shit.

/Actually, I do care. But I am saying this with a rational approach. Grieving is useless, but you can turn it into motivation to draw more. It's pretty much like me and weed. It already helped out with one album.

igott 2009-07-17 22:15:57

See your argument is let him cry. My argument is turn that sadness into power, motivation and greatness, like what Pink Floyd did.

twilightofdusk 2009-07-17 23:32:51

alright, let me fucking ASSUME your right...
what kind of power are you talking about?

twilightofdusk 2009-07-18 01:16:27

I get what you both are trying to say, but you guys are acting like his been grieving over Anyell for years! She died just days ago, what do you expect him to do, talk about how happy he feels, no he is gonna feel like shit because its his sister who just DIED!!!

Give him your advice about getting over her at least a couple of weeks from now, NOT who gives a fuck, she's died, life is about the living, you can't bring her back bullshit...

God. You have to see how heartless you both sound... and you're his friends!

goofyka 2009-07-18 01:29:13

Well you bringing her up every 5 minutes probably won't help him feel better anytime soon!

twilightofdusk 2009-07-18 01:47:40

So tell me, since you assume you know everything, tell me what to do and I'll do it.
What should I say, get over it.... That is still the same subject of her death.

Fine. You win! I'll tell him to grow up, stop sulking and forget about her!
Since that's what you want...